Jacob & Hilary

Jacob had a rare gift of finding and creating community wherever he went. Whether it was with new acquaintances or long-lasting friendships. I was fortunate to be one of the many acquaintances turned friends during his time in Seattle.

Jacob and I initially met on a group backpacking trip to Shi Shi Beach with ten of our mutual friends. He had organized the trip and I was lucky to have grabbed a spot on the permit. Over a beach bonfire I listened to his travels in the Middle East and his compassion for refugees. Fresh off my year of voluntary service his desire to help others resonated with me. Over the following months I saw his circles grow and deepen.

In December he shared his family’s Sunday Advent Dinners with friends new and old. Over a shared meal new bonds were made and friendships rekindled. I still see the fruits of these gatherings today.

Like most relationships in our twenties we grew distant. But when Howdy Bagel visited Seattle I eagerly stood in line (running into college buddies) awaiting the familiar smile and acknowledgment.

Jacob’s natural ability to build and maintain connections is irreplaceable. He worked tirelessly to plan group trips and organize community dinners. He grew a relationship and business where he could be authentically himself through and through. The virtues of these actions take a lifetime to embody. Reflecting on who he was reminds me to carry and give the same unwavering kindness and respect to others. In our grieving, may we all carry a similar light. Take care of yourself and one another.