I met Jake and Dan in New Orleans on January 5th. I was visiting from New York on vacation and knew no one in New Orleans. I count them amongst a small number of people who were very friendly and welcoming while I was there. In the brief time I spoke with Jake he was very kind and warm as was Dan. I was blown away by these two people who not only found each other but also were sophisticated entrepreneurs doing something cool in their home state. My heart broke this morning reading about what happened. My prayers are with Dan, Jake’s family, the Howdy Bagel community and everyone who cares for them.

-George Blair

My heart sank when I heard this story. I rarely donate, but situations like this I believe it’s what I needed to do to support my LGBT+ community.

-Casey Blauer

From one Aggie to another. Praying for you all as you grieve this terrible loss.

-Barbara Reed

We love you Jacob and Daniel.
-Dave & Leslie Collins

My daughters love coming to your shop, thank you for what you give/gave to this community. Please hang in there during this time!

-Laurel Madson Lawson

We love you Daniel and have such heavy hearts for your loss. We wish we could have met Jake. He must have been an exceptionally kindhearted, loving, joyous and authentic person like you.

-Kayla (Wessbecher) Vaughan & Cam Vaughan.

We are so grateful to Jake and Daniel for opening their first bakery on STW in our neighborhood of hardworking people like themselves. Love the bagels and Jake. He exuded genuine kindness and care making us feel as if we were family instead of customers. Jake was an amazing human being losing him is so painful.

-Keith Margeson

I am so very sorry for your loss. When we moved to Tacoma last year the first place we went was Howdy Bagel. Such a beautiful and peaceful space.

-Jessica Previch

I am resident of Louisiana and saw this story on the news in which was heartbreaking, prayers through for all.

-Kristi Chancellor

Howdy has been my favorite place to go every week since discovering it back in July. Always warms smiles and amazing service. I’m so sorry that this happened. My heart goes out to Daniel and the Howdy crew.

-Kelli Dean-Hendricks

We’re heartbroken for you in New Orleans.

-Aimee Spangenberg

Sending love and positivity to the Howdy Bagel family and the greater STW family.

-Cheyenne Rolon

Sending all our love.

-Erica Baker

Howdy is about more than bagels. The community you created and the support you provide to local businesses and Tacoma, as a whole, has changed lives. Your impact cannot be understated. We love you.

-Rudy & Helen

Sending all the love and support to Daniel & the Howdy team.

-Charme Studio


I'm so deeply sorry for this terrible loss - my heart is broken for you. Jake clearly made the world around him a better and more beautiful place. Sending all my love to Daniel and to Jake's loved ones.

-Beth Lopez

So very sorry

-Lauren Sutton

I saw a TikTok on this from Olivia Alexander and wanted to show some support as a member of the glbtq community and as a lover of bagels. Sorry for your loss.

-David Roberts

Sending love and condolences to all who knew and loved Jake.

-Emily McCann

My heart breaks for this tremendous loss. Sending so much love to Daniel, their family and the Howdy team.

-Suzi Fransen

We loved Howdy Bagel from all the way across the country (OH) and made a point of going every time we were in Washington. Jake and Daniel created such a beautiful establishment in terms of not only the food they provided, but for the safe space and welcoming environment to all. Jake's passing is devastating and he will be missed dearly - but amidst the pain felt by the community, may his husband/family/loved ones rest assured that he and Daniel made a difference to a lot of people and will be remembered for that.

-VeganGuysFromOhio

Been to Howdy only 3 or 4 times but felt I already was getting to know Jake and Daniel since they were so friendly. So saddened for Daniel and the team there.

-James Truitt

While I don’t know Jake or Daniel personally, my brother and his husband have met them several times and visited Howdy Bagel on numerous occasions. They told me about them, and I started following them on Instagram. It was such a great story, and wonderful to see these amazing guys find success. We were absolutely shocked by the news and hope Daniel can somehow find peace in knowing that he has so many people looking out for him. We are also thinking of all the employees at Howdy Bagel. Hopefully they can find a way to continue Jake’s legacy.

-Tracie Anderson

I so appreciate the welcome feeling of your shop and the love that is evident in your lives. Much love to you.

-Sharon Rue

The people of New Orleans care deeply about our visitors and friends

-Charlotte McCall

First Bagel shop I have ever gone to with my GF...Will always support this store no matter what... Sending love and positive vibes

-Juan Briseno Brito

Devastated for his family and our community. I hope you all continue to receive comfort and support.

-Noha Mahgoub


My wife and I donated because we love Jake and Daniel. We admire and respect you both more than you know. Your work ethic, kindness, and overall amazing personness is beyond inspiring. We’ll always remember Jake’s warm smile when we first got in line at the market. Sending you love in this trying time.

-Patrick Sorenson

You created such a loving accepting business together. I have felt so welcomed. Sending a warm embrace for healing.

-Zeryn Zaire

I wish you peace and comfort as you grieve.

-Karen Ray

Every Wednesday morning I go to the shop and am greeted with coffee, bagels and joy. Daniel, Jacob and crew, you are loved. I wish I could give you all hugs right now.

-Ben Sherman

Jake was the light in the room every time I entered howdy. I loved saying hello while he ran a tray of bagels up front or stopped to say hi to the customers waiting in line. I am sending my utmost love and sympathy to Daniel, and the entire howdy team. Tacoma feels this hard, and we are with you while you grieve. I’m so beyond sorry.

-Lorna Shelton

What a terrible loss for his family and the whole community. Jake created something so beautiful. The hole left behind is immeasurable. Holding space for the whole Howdy team.

-Olivia Taylor

Jake radiated kindness. I’m so sorry for your loss.

-Anna Green

Jake will be so very missed.

-Ian Cawley

Sending love, we are so deeply sorry for your loss.

-Julia Beers

Sending so much love in this unbearable and unthinkable time

-Ryan Soltes

So heartbroken. Words can’t describe how much joy Jake brought into peoples lives. He cared for and touched everyone he interacted with. Sending love and hugs to the family and Daniel ❤️

-Melissa Costell

I’m absolutely heartbroken. I couldn’t imagine…. I can’t understand… why do these things happen!!

-George Aulson

Sending all of my love to the Howdy Bagel family.

-Jordan Ayala

Jake was always such a bright light every time I came into the shop. He would walk past me with a tray of bagels with the sweetest smile to everyone he came across. Always taking that extra second to say hello despite the chaos of running a thriving business. The pain this is causing the community is a testament to the love and beautiful energy he poured into the people around him. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers!

-Reem Alawi

The Tacoma community felt the love y’all had for each other. Sending hugs and healing.

-Kenna Davis

Jacob was such a kind soul. I only knew him from my frequent stops to get Howdy’s delicious bagels! My condolences to Daniel and the rest of Jacob’s family.

-Samala Penalver

My heart breaks for Daniel and all other the people who loved Jacob.

-Laura Langer

Sending love from Longbranch and the Haggerty Family

-David Haggerty

Absolutely devastating. Jake was such a force of good. Sending all the love to Daniel and their loved ones during this dark, dark time.

-Beverly Tsai

I’m so heart sick….Jacob is everything that’s right with the world.

-Daniela Ayala

I only met Jake once, but he was a joy. Sending love.

-Jessica Melton

Jacob, you are everything good in this world. Thank you for your kindness, your selflessness, and your love for participants and colleagues at World Releif. My time with you is something I will cherish. There was always something very special about your gentle and loving energy- your presence was a true gift to experience. I will always remember the way you made space for others. To Daniel and Jacob’s loved ones, my heart is with you. All the love a heart can hold, -Hannah Crockett

I didn't know Jake, we only spoke once, but the shop he and Daniel built together is a wonderful bright spot in Tacoma. It's truly a testament to both of their character and kindness. My heart goes out to Daniel, there are no words for this type of loss.

-Adam Westermann

It is clear what a pillar howdy bagel has been for the community. Deepest condolences to Jacob’s family and loved ones.

-Marcie Jhong

We were heartbroken when we heard this news. Every time we came in Jake was such a bright light and had the biggest smile. He will be sorely missed. Our hearts are with you as Daniel and Howdy family grieve.

-Jonathan Whiddon

So sorry to hear the news of this tragic loss of such a loved and valued member of our community.

-Justin Ryan

I am heartbroken over this news. The world lost a truly beautiful person.

-Lisa Szymczak

❤️❤️❤️

-Alexa Bragg

I always wanted to get a bagel there. My heart hurts.

-Caroline Dunn

From the moment Howdy Bagel opened, it was clear that Jacob and Daniel intended it to be a community hub and to use their platform to enrich Tacoma. The least Tacoma can do is give back during this tragedy.

-Maile Murphy

So so soooo sorry Sending love and warm hugs

Lindsay Kamberger

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers❤️

-Kelsey Musselman

Devastated & heartbroken for Daniel.

-Paige Shafer

Daniel was my roommate when I first moved to Seattle. I remember when Jake and him would cook in the kitchen downstairs. So much laughter and warm smiles. Love to Daniel & Jake’s family.

-Isabel Babic

I am so sorry this happened. My husband and I were attacked back in September 2022 and were lucky to escape with our lives. The struggle for the LGBTQ+ community is not over and the death of people like Jake Carter should not happen and not be tolerated.

-Michael Wechselberger

I didn't know Jacob, the Howdy Bagel shop or have even been to Seattle … but I am from New Orleans and want to share that this news rocked our city and broke our hearts to hear that such a beautiful life was taken so tragically, especially in a city he loved. You all are in our hearts and prayers and the people of New Orleans are sending you all the love and light we can.

-Tiffany Walters

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very sad time.

-The Reiten Family

The impact brought by the kindness and warmth of Jake and Daniel in our community and this world is profound. I hope Daniel is being as held and supported as possible right now.

-Britt McGrath

Just terrible news. :(

-William Cook

Jake and Daniel have made Tacoma a better place with their love, light, and bagels. Jake will be sorely missed, and we're devastated for this huge loss. Our hearts are with Daniel and everyone who knew and loved Jake.

-Tawny Clark

I am so grateful that I got to know the joy that was Jake Carter. My heart breaks for the person the world lost and for his family and friends, especially you Daniel. Jake always cared about the people around him more than himself and would make sure that people were fed and at the table before he picked up a plate. I miss you already Jake.

-Sarah Brenden

I am honored and feel so very lucky to have known Jake. My whole heart is with Daniel, their families, and the entire community.

-Jena Rehm

Daniel, your parents are my neighbors. I remember meeting you, Jake and thoroughly modern Millie a couple years ago. You guys were so friendly and happy. I’m blown away by this tragic, senseless loss. My heart goes out to you and I wish for you to find peace and solace in the love you and Jake shared.

-Julie Norris

I live in New Orleans and saw this story on the news and it broke my heart. It could’ve been anyone, I’m so sorry it was you.

-Colleen Vesser

From my mother, Chitra - As a colleague of Jacob's, I saw his heart for the marginalized. He was not content to stand on the sidelines but involved his whole being in creating community. He is absolutely the best of us and my broken heart will miss him immensely.

-Rani Hanstad

Jake will be deeply missed. I have been visiting Howdy since they were at the market. Jake was always so warm and kind and would always make a point to remember my name. Sesame bagel with butter babies for life

-Catherine Gibson

Sending so much love from the UK.

-From Pete and Jason Holland. Best xx

We have great people in the coffee and breakfast community. This is a terrible loss.

-Timothy Howard

The impact you’ve had in the community is profound- evident by the support and love during this tragic time. If you need anything, we’re right down the road ❤️‍

-Joe Stewart

I'm deeply sorry to hear this horrible news. It's clear that Jake was incredibly special and that the space you two created together is a beautiful reflection of your kindness and love. As a fellow Texan-Seattleite, I so wish I'd been able to meet Jake and share a Howdy bagel with you both.

-Rachael Sage

With love and support from NOLA ❤️❤️❤️

-Kelly Davis

Heartbreaking. Condolences to them!

-Alan Lum

I’m so sorry for your loss. I live in Oly and was planning to come have a bagel soon because I heard how awesome y’all were. Devastated to hear the news. Hugs to Daniel and the entire Howdy family.

-Kristina King

Thank you for bringing our community together through your love, bagels and so much more. I’m sending virtual hugs. My heart hurts.

-Teena Thach

Sending love, healing, and support to daniel + the entire howdy crew. thank you for the beauty you've brought to our community, tacoma and beyond. we love you all so much.

-Jin Jin Matcha

In remembrance of Jake. Sending Daniel positive thoughts that peace and grace will find eventually you as you move through grief.

-Sincerely, Kari (a Texan, living in Seattle)

We are so, so saddened by this loss - felt all across the Tacoma community. Jake, we didn't know you well but I'm grateful our paths crossed and we got to experience your smile and warmth. Daniel, we're keeping you in our thoughts and sending so much love your way.

-Katie Tong

Thinking of you all and your team in Washington. Sending love from New Orleans. I am so sorry this happened.

-Madison Robison


Sending love to Daniel and Tacoma and the howdy community

-Amy Beylerian

Thank you for everything you have given to our community and the love that Howdy Bagel has put out into the world. I am so sorry for this senseless loss.

-Chelsea Addison

Daniel - I've been following y'all since the early days, when you just started slinging bagels at the Proctor Farmer's Market. They were so good, I had to sign up for the bagel club! You and Jake have always been so kind, welcoming, and generous - and, having moved away from Tacoma just before y'all opened, I was so looking forward to seeing the storefront in person when I next visited. I can't imagine how you're feeling right now, but I'm sending all of my love to you and the Howdy team.

-Em Carr

It’s chaos, be kind.

-Shanna Hudson

The last time I visited Howdy the week before Christmas I watched Jake and Daniel working side by side on the line, and I was filled with joy for them for what they had created. How incredibly special to share that space and that time as lovers and partners. Jake had such a warm presence, and everyone he interacted with felt it. Daniel, we love you, we see you, we will be here for you whenever, however we can be. Our hearts break with you and for you, but we surround you with love ❤️

-Sarah Havens

I’ve followed this lovely couple on Instagram since they moved to Washington. Their gratitude and love for our community and each other touched my heart.

-Heather Kindred

♥️

-Julia VanCamp

My heart goes out to you. Tacoma mourns your loss and will miss Jake so much.

-Briana Johnson

There are no words I could say to express the loss the Tacoma community is feeling right now. I've known Daniel since we were kids and the first time I met Jake, I knew that they were each other's person. It's incredible to find a great business partner, but to find your life partner as well is amazing. I wish I could give you a big hug Daniel. As for the Howdy crew, thanks for being such a great team. I hope this small token helps in this devastating time. Love to you all.

-Rebekah Soltis

Sending all our love!

-Ryan Chadwick

Absolutely gutted over this senseless tragedy! Jacob you were special in all the most wonderful ways. You were everything right with this world! You will be dearly missed and always loved, Jacob.

-Gorrety Parmu

I’m am so terribly sorry for your loss, I cannot imagine what everyone is going through. Sending all my love and care to you all. ❤️‍

-Mia Baker

Heartbreaking, we have frequented your lovely bagel shop multiple times and have felt the warmth and love. What a tragedy. Our thoughts are with you and your families during this dark time.

-Anne LaPorte

What a special community Jake and Daniel have created with Howdy Bagel. This loss is so tragic. My thoughts and prayers go out to their families.

-Debbie Macdonald

Praying peace for all of your broken hearts. Amazing to see such support and such a beautiful reflection of what bright lights you share♥️

-Kristin Bullman

Daniel and the Howdy Team: you are loved and in our thoughts.

-Mario & Sarah Maichel

I’m so incredibly sorry to hear about the news. Sending love and light your way.

-Neal Gockel

May jake’s soul be lifted to the arms of the ancestors

-Meesa Pedrozo

Our love and deepest condolences to Daniel, the whole Howdy crew, and all who loved Jake. ❤️

-Katrina Seibel

Jake was such a bright spot in our Tacoma community and he will continue to be through his memory. My heart goes out to Daniel and the whole Howdy team. Please take all the time you need and know the community will be behind you.

-Elise Morey

I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending love and support to you and your loved ones ❤️

-Emilee Miller

Peace be with you all.

-Catherine Monroe

Our deepest condolences to Daniel, Jacob’s family and the entire Howdy team. You are all loved.

-Artisans Group

Such tragic news! I didn’t get the chance to meet Jake, but I’ve followed along as he and Daniel built a beautiful community in Tacoma, and I’ve basked in the warmth of that community. Sending love, light and comfort to Daniel and the whole Howdy family. May his memory be a blessing.

-Marcy Meyer

Sending y’all love and light in what is the darkest of times.

-Lauren Bickley

Heartbroken for the entire Howdy community and all who loved him. I only had the pleasure of meeting Jake once but he was such a genuine and kind person. Sending so much love to his family, especially Daniel.

-Jenn Elliott Blake

This donation was on behalf of the Sims family and our complete loss of words regarding this horrible tragedy.

-Lance Sims

I am so sorry for your loss, this is truly heartbreaking...sending warm thoughts to everyone at Howdy. Love you all

-Christopher East

My heart is absolutely broken. Sweet Jacob, it was a pleasure meeting you in NZ and getting to know you as a friend. You were the kindest and most selfless person I've ever met. A beautiful life taken too soon, too soon.

-Julia Jiang

Sending light, love & comfort to you as you remember the wonderfulness of Jake.

-Laura Niblack

This news is heartbreaking. Wishing Daniel and both of their families so much love.

-Jocelyn Downs

Jake and Daniel bring love into or community and share it generously.

-Cynthia Hackett

My heart is with you Daniel and Howdy Bagel crew. I’m so, so sorry

-Kestin Merritt Moon

Words are inadequate for this gut-wrenching loss.

-Carmel Thompson

His beloved should be able to keep their business AND have all the time he needs to grieve. I am so so sorry for you loss, words do not even convey how my heart breaks for you and all of his loved ones.

-Boonee Shaw Williamson

So heartbroken for Daniel, so heartbroken for the community. We're all behind y'all as you grieve.

-Emily Knauer


We are devastated for Daniel and the Howdy Bagel family. They are such an incredible part of our STW community and Jake will be very, very missed. We hope we can all create the space you need to grieve, process, and find a path to healing in this hard time.

-Hive Co.

My heart goes out to you and the Howdy family ❤️

-Kimber Kim

Daniel all our love and prayers are with you, and the Carter family. Our sincere condolences to the family & staff.

-Linda Mavellia

Jacob Carter was an uplifting and sincerely kind presence whenever he stopped in. He made a lasting impression on our staff. We are proud to be connected to the beautiful community that he, Daniel and the team at Howdy fostered together. We will miss him very much.

-The Staff of Wooden City Tacoma

Sending love.

-John Labman

We are a local hair salon that have seen the positive impact that Howdy Bagel and their owners have created in our community. We want to support our local small businesses and hope that our collective donation as a salon can provide some ease during this difficult time. All of us at The Hive are keeping you in our thoughts ❤️

-Alyssa,The Hive Hair Studio

With love from Tacoma ♥️

-Amber Cox

With heartfelt sympathy, I send my deepest condolences.

-Robert Olson

Sorry for your loss.

-Coleman Smith

From uncle Mike. We love you and are praying for you.

-Michelle Balliett

I felt it

-Ashley Summers

Daniel, we are truly sorry for your loss. We didn't know Jake, but knowing you and all the love poured out on you guys he must have been an amazing person we wish we had known. I hope everyone's donations give you the chance to grieve fully and properly, and just know that we are all sending our love to you.

-Kathryn Rabey

I feel lucky to have known Jake and his amazing light. Love to Daniel, his family, and his friends as they navigate this enormous loss.

-Justin Chen

We are deeply saddened by this tragic loss and sending you so much love and support.

-Heidi Caillier

State Street has the fondest memories of serving you Daniel & Jake. We'll think of you every time we deliver a burrata pizza to the patio :) Thank you for all the beautiful homegrown flowers, sincerest smiles and bright light you've created in our community.

-Much love, State Crew

I’m sorry for your loss. Jacob looked like an amazing person.

-Zachary Tolksdorf


I've never been to Howdy but it’s been on my list, and I’m so sorry that the Tacoma community has lost such an awesome human and partner. Thinking of this community in these difficult weeks to come.

-Annie Guo

When Jake & Daniel worked at the Gourmet Niche before opening their storefront, I had the pleasure of getting to know them. Jake radiated positivity and was one of the most kind, caring, funny, thoughtful people I have ever met. He made everyone his friend and truly listened to & cared for every single person. He made everybody feel like a somebody. My favorite memory of Jake is him & Daniel singing karaoke and dancing together at a surprise birthday party for a coworker. They radiated so much love and happiness. My heart breaks for Daniel, all of Tacoma is grieving alongside him. Jake was such a light for everyone in the community.

-Michelle Molina

Condolences from NOLA

-Brandon Wright

My husband told me about how coworkers would bring howdy bagels into the office and it’d be a great start to their morning. We’re so sorry for your loss, Tacoma grieves with you.

-Emily George

My husband and I share in your grief

-Mykel Whitney

Sending love from California. So sorry for your loss of your loved one. I can’t imagine.

-Doug Long

This is so tragic. I am so so sorry for your loss. Daniel, I met you at your parent's house at the garden tour this past summer. You were so kind and it breaks my heart that this happened. Sending love.

-Jess Hagenah


Justin and I are sending our love

-Kyle Heatherly

We have been following HB since their farmers market days. So gutted to hear of Jakes passing. Sending love to Daniel and the HB team.

-Heidi Gerstenbauer

Daniel & The Howdy Team, It is hard to put into words what Howdy means to this community. You are all such a vital part of Tacoma’s story and we are grateful to know you and love you. What an unimaginable loss. The joy Jake brought to every new day, will be wildly missed. Please know that you are supported & important to all of us here at The Mix and Tacoma as a whole. Take the time to care for yourselves and one another. So much love from our big gay family to yours.

-The Mix

Kind healing thoughts from a fellow Washington state small business owner AND fellow traveler/lover of N'Awlins and the Big Easy. "Sorry" doesn't cut it, for what was experienced in a place that can be so beautiful, kind, and memorable!

-Recorded Memories

I love howdy bagel and what they have brought to this community. Thoughts and prayers to all HB friends and family

-Alia Malo

It is obvious to anyone who has visited that Howdy Bagel was crafted and created by love. Please know the community it was created for sees that and loves you back.

-Corinne Sebren

The news of Mr. Carter's death in my hometown is horrific, especially as a member of the LGBT+ community. May his memory be a blessing and his loved ones find comfort.

-Clara Souvignier

Too much sadness

-James Duff

A new and successful business. Two partners looking ahead with shared vision and creative passion. The Tacoma community behind them every step of the way. This story should have a happy ending. So sorry to Daniel and the whole team at Howdy Bagel. Take all the time you need.

-James Cawaling

Virtual 1 dozen bagels and cream cheese!! Biggest prayers to Daniel and all the families impacted as well as the staff of Howdy's We look forward to the vision continuing!

-Justin Thomas Arbuthnot

When people ask why I love Tacoma so much, I tell them stories about places like Howdy Bagel and people like Jake, Daniel and the rest of the crew. A tremendous loss. A tremendous legacy. This community will always be here for you, with all our Grit City love.

-Dustin Halcon

I'm so sorry.

-Bonnie Buckles

Thank you for sharing your love with all of us. May you receive it and more in return, and may Jake’s memory be a blessing

-Chelsea Amato

Howdy Bagel is such a beautiful space that reflects your love for each other and the community you built. Sending some reflection of that love back your way in this heartbreaking time.

-Melyssa Stone

We know there’s nothing we can say to you to take away the pain you are experiencing right now. We wish there was. Our hearts are absolutely broken for you. Jake was an absolute ray of sunshine in this world and we’re just honored to have been a part of his life. We will miss him so much. We love you, Daniel and are sending a big hug to you and all Jake’s loved ones.

-The Wallace-Beers

Sending love to this community during an unimaginable time.

-Athena Taylor

Sending all our love and support to The Howdy Crew and Daniel during this heartbreaking time. Jake was such a bright spot in our community and will be missed beyond measure. Love and heart healing thoughts.

-Bar Rosa Crew

Our heartfelt love and support to Daniel and the Howdy Bagel team.

-Steph Newberry

I've only had the chance to go to Howdy Bagel once, but I know what a gem it is in our community. I'm supporting as an ally for the LGBTQ+ community of Tacoma and am sending the love to everyone affected by the loss of a treasured member of the family. I never met Jake, but I can't stop thinking about him.

-Laura Nelson

Such a tragic loss for our community here in Tacoma. You will be missed ❤️

-Haley Hoagland Thomas

Heartbroken for the loss. Jacob and Daniel have made such a bright and loving community in Tacoma. Sending love. ❤️

-Emily Webster

I can't believe this is part of their story. All my love and thoughts are with Daniel and the people who held Jacob dear. What a beautiful light he was.

-Erin Conners Bergfield

I do not know either of these gentleman, but my heart is broken for the continued senseless loss of life in the LGBTIQA+ community. I’m so very sorry for your loss and hope that peace & healing finds you sooner rather than later ❤️

-Ashley Bryant

My heart breaks hearing about this. Sending you love and support from Colorado. Praying you and the team are surrounded by community during this time of mourning and sorrow. ❤️

-Sarah Jackson

Jake was such a special part of our community and he will be so dearly missed. My husband and I were immediate fans of Howdy when we moved to Tacoma, not just because of the incredible bagels, but also by how incredibly warm, kind, and genuine Daniel and Jake are. The love that they shared for each other and the community was so vibrant. Sending all of our love to everyone grieving this huge loss, and especially Daniel, Jake’s sweet parents who we had the absolute pleasure of meeting opening day, and their always bright Howdy staff. Tacoma loves you

-Angela Ajhar

Daniel and Jake and their lovely bagel joint are bright lights in the Tacoma community. Their love for each other and for thier customers is evident to all- We are devastated to hear the news of this tragedy. Peace.

-Lola Ridgley-Wagar


My husband and I are devastated by this news. We’ve been so happy to witness Jacob and Daniel’s success and happy life together. Sending love.

-Mary Pipes

Howdy Bagel has been my favorite place to eat since we moved to Tacoma from Puyallup last year (right as they were opening too!) and not only was the food made with love, the shop was made with love and you could feel love when you walked in the door. Jake, Daniel, and everything about Howdy exude love and Tacoma is so lucky to be able to receive it. I hope Tacoma can show their love back in this small way after the hardest thing a human can experience.

-Elizabeth Joyner

I'm so sorry, and I wish I had more to give.

-Carmen Beaudry

I’m so sorry for this devastating loss. Thinking of you all and your family

-Cara Blake

May Jake’s memory be a blessing to all who knew him.

-Ro and Eli Gandour-Rood

Heartbroken and sending love.

-Lynn Izlar

We are stunned and gutted for you, Daniel, and all that love and support your family. Nothing feels "enough" as I try to write. I hope we can all surround you with the same intense love and light that you both have brought to this community during this time. Our hearts are with you. ❤️

-Amy Lloyd Wagner

Shared only a brief moment with Jake and he immediately brightened both Ryan and I's worlds. I know there are no words but we hope Daniel and Jake's loved ones can feel love and comfort each day. ❤️

-Evan Sumner

I’m heartbroken to hear about this news. I never had the chance to meet Jake but I know he was very loved. I wish Daniel and his family and the Howdy bagel crew peace and connection during this difficult time. All my love ❤️

-Rachael Welch

Sending love Daniel ❤️❤️❤️

-Sydney Hummel


This breaks my heart for you all- sending love and support.

-Bri Emery